How do I stay safe on dating apps?

Concerns & risks

You were trying to meet someone through a dating app, but you're nervous about safety.

Strangers can be risky.

Causes & evidence

Protect personal info and money. See romance scams.

What to do

1. Don't share financial info.
2. Video chat first.
3. Meet in public.

Common mistakes: Common mistakes: sharing your home address or financial info too early. Video chat first. Meet in public. Tell a friend your plans. Arrange your own transport. Keep your drink with you. Trust your gut and leave if uncomfortable. Report bad behavior to the app. Research your match by looking for social media and checking that their photos match. Don't feel pressured to move off the app's messaging too fast. Keep your phone charged. Plan your own exit, like a set end time. Avoid going to their home or inviting them to yours on the first meetings. If they ask for money or gift cards, it's very likely a scam. After the date, check in with your friend so they know you're home safe.

Speed Man tip: Report suspicious profiles.

Wrap-up: No money. Video. Public.